No way, I think I'd have to dig a hole in the garden put her in it and build an RC shed on top, maybe name the shed after my late wife because that's all she would deserve, that's dia man.
On a more serious note, I agree that if you are in love you interests should not conflict, my fiance is totally fine with all of my many hobbies, I still spend time with her and we share responsibilities, (kiddy winks, animals) She sounds like a control freak, has an idea of what she wants and is trying to mold him into it, which will breed contempt, leave quick I say before more dreadful things start happening.